放下和放慢的勇气 dare to choose

女性解放2.0——这期大专题的标题相当有口号感和煽动性。其实,ELLE希望和读者分享的并不是一句口号,而是一种生活态度,与时下优秀、独立、自信,又忙碌、迷茫、焦虑的女性朋友们一起探讨:若是可以适时适量“放下”我们数年来孜孜不倦追求的各种目标,若可以“放慢”已经疲惫不堪里外狼狈的奔波的步伐——生活,还有另一种精彩的可能。
有个女孩子曾在微博上问我:一个女孩成熟的标志是什么?
我想成熟的重要标志之一是懂得取舍吧,“取”意味着知道自己最想要的是什么;“舍”是认同原来生活中有那么多东西、那么多好东西,其实我们并没有能力或福分全部拥有。而只要珍惜我们已经拥有的那一点点,日子就可以足够好——肯放下,才会拥有。
十一大假期间,一边看董桥的散文集《记忆的角注》,一边跟着于丹老师《重温最美古诗词》。美好的文字让人觉得生活美好。好文字写的常是生活中的细微感受:春华秋实,日出月落,一个飞舞的眼神,一件有故事的小物件。骤然发现,日子里的好,是需要放慢脚步才体会得到的。如同一场旅行,可以跟着旅行团11天8国地走马观花,也可以自己拖着行李,找个当地客栈小住几天,过一段普通而崭新的日子。前者看到的只是景点甚至只是景点的外观,后者感受的是风土人情、人文景致。
人生亦如一段旅途,好景致需要好眼力,好眼力需要好心情,好心情需要放慢脚步,而放慢脚步在时下最需要的,是抉择的勇气。
这期杂志中所介绍的四位女性,在各自的故事里都充满勇气。她们和我们一样,想要浪漫的爱情、稳定的家庭、蒸蒸日上的事业、活泼可爱的宝贝……而在每一个“想要”的过程中,她们都做了重要的有关“放下”的抉择。
惟有肯放下,脚步才会慢下来,日子才有新的惊喜,生命中才有一种感受叫做自由。虽然,爱情、家庭、孩子、事业、青春、美貌,我们都想要,但是,我们最想要的——是一个女人可以掌握自己的命运。
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