女人四十

22年前,这本叫ELLE的杂志来到中国。从此每年10月刊,编辑部为新老读者做周年纪念大刊。我们和你们,看着这本杂志长大,每年这一时刻,一起庆祝我们共同的成长。

多年前,当我还是一名大学生的时候,ELLE启蒙了我和我的同学们对时装、创意和优雅的向往,多年后的今天,ELLE成为我和我的同事们生活中一个具体的理想和一份有激情的事业。讨论选题的时候大家提到2010年这个年头,刚好是ELLE三代读者70后、80后和90后的40、30和20岁。

这个月对我的人生来说,也是刚刚好的“女人四十”,我就是70那一拨,在我18岁不知时尚为何物的时候,有福气看到这本当年觉得很“惊艳”的杂志,又有福气在很多年后成为这本杂志的一员,还有福气在给杂志22岁庆生的时候,迎来自己的四十不惑之年,可以与这么多读者朋友分享女人四十的心得。

感谢岁月赋予我的诸多经验和教训,所有的经历都是成长的代价,就如同眼角终于有了细细的皱纹,我相信那是岁月在悄悄地告诉我:你老了,可是你从容了,宽容了;你上有老下有小了,可是你丰富了,丰收了。

感谢四十年来曾经碰到的每一个人,志同道合的朋友是我们前生的缘分,因为有和你们的相遇相知,我的生命更精彩;志不同道不合的过路人是我们今生的缘分,因为有了和你们的纠结,我被打磨得更有韧性、更坚强。

感恩妈妈从我懂事起就不断地跟我说:“人这一生啊,种瓜得瓜,种豆得豆。”而我很小的时候有缘分碰到智者前辈,清晰地告诉我“上天有一只眼在看,你说了什么做了什么,好的坏的,早早晚晚,都有一报”。所以四十年来不侥幸、不偷懒,没有害人心,不做亏心事,有错过有遗憾有终生不能解之痛,但是可以心里亮堂堂地过每一天。

感恩在曾经艰难曾经心灰意冷的时刻,在那些失恋、失意和失败的日子里,总是有人可以听我诉说陪我流泪,当心里觉得日子已经变得灰暗的时候,朋友和亲人让我依然有能力相信柳暗花明,有勇气重拾信心。

感谢上苍,赐给我一对小女儿,让我有机会经历十月怀胎生产之痛,有责任抚养两个小娃娃长大成人。生命里因为有了她们,当下每一天变得更有意义,未来每一年变得更值得期待。

终于四十,终于可以享受人到中年的收获,青春不再可是已经拥有很多小幸福大快乐,拥有朋友和亲人的爱,很知足。

终于四十,终于可以自豪地说自己已走过成长的春天和青涩的夏天,而到了沉甸甸的秋天,心里的天空是那种北京深秋的枫叶红色,有岁月积累的浓度和厚度,有自知和自信,日子实在,内心充实。

终于四十,曾经以为四十不惑是四十岁的时候就会想明白所有的事情,到了四十才明白,原来不惑的意思是不再追究所有问题都有一个答案。年少轻狂时,曾执著地追寻生命里碰到的所有问题的答案,而四十岁的时候悟出,生命本来就是一场没有输赢的局,珍惜当下最重要。

谢谢正在看这段文字的你,如果你还很年轻,那由衷地恭喜你,赶紧享受青春,没有什么比年轻的身体和心灵更值得珍爱的;如果你是和我一样的70生人,真高兴和你分享四十岁的喜悦、知足与感恩,让我们一起——生日快乐。

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