名利与理想

THE WISHES OF MINE
每年四月,都会做一本明星主题刊,封面一定是好莱坞当红明星,里面一定有一连串你叫得出名字的人物报道,娱乐渐渐深入我们的生活,明星成为传媒不可缺少的话题。可是总有点小担心,我们和看到杂志的朋友们,会不会觉得明星光彩照人、名利双收的生活就是我们的理想?名和利,都不是坏东西,然而扪心自问,是我们最想要的东西么?是我们的理想么?

小时候常被老师要求写题为《我的理想》的作文,长大后却很少有机会再提“理想”。于丹在《百家讲坛》中曾经有一堂课抛出这样的问题:大家都忙忙碌碌——买越来越大的房子,换越来越好的车子,背越来越贵的包,坐越来越高的职位⋯⋯有没有空儿问问自己的内心,这些是我们的理想么?这些能够让我们的内心充实满足和快乐么?

理想的问题也难住了自己,认真想了自己最希望实现的三点人生愿望,好像都不是大理想,却真的愿意朝着这样的方向去努力:
1. 家人都平安,健康,快乐;
2. 做自己想做的事,做事的过程中有机会不断地学习新东西;
3. 帮助有能力帮助的人,在别人的成长中享受自己的人生成就感。
准确地讲,这三点和名利有关,但都不是名利。

我相信,大部分ELLE读者内心最想要的,都是类似这样的、小小的、实在的生活愿望,而不是在闪光灯下绚烂的明星生活,也不是要挣到多少钱要做成多大的事业。

所以,理想的方向的重要性在于当你知道自己最想要的不是名利时,就不会在人生的名利场里为了名利放弃良知,放弃亲情、爱情和友情,放弃人生的快乐。

所以,我们虽然不是明星,依然可以为了自己的小理想,快乐地奋斗,让自己的人生很绚烂。

所以,我们即使做了明星,还是可以抱着自己的小理想,不让那些表面的喧哗乱了心,让自己的人生繁华之外还很充实和踏实。

名利不是理想,不是人生终极的奋斗目标,真的找个空儿问问自己的内心,那个藏在心底深处的声音,其实都在说着善良忠义相亲相爱的愿望,都在说着把自己的小日子过成好日子的简单朴实的期待……
没有名利——只要理想常在,生活依然生机勃勃;有了名利——理想更需清晰,生活才能快乐。

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名利与理想》有 43 条评论

  1. .23. 说:

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    四月的ELLE世界时装之苑 不是 新版红楼梦主演们的封面么!?还是只有内页。什么时候出版啊!?

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    真希望有一天能成为ELLE团队中的一员

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